Every couple has disagreements. Sometimes, they’re small things, like ordering DoorDash or cooking with the groceries you just bought. Other times, they can feel like a serious threat to the relationship—such as an unplanned pregnancy. Perhaps you’re considering abortion and are wondering how it could affect your relationship. Will it solve the problem or will it make things worse than before?
Abortion is a significant decision that can leave a lasting impact on your relationship with your partner. It’s crucial to get the facts so that you can make the best choice for your future together!
How Could Abortion Affect My Relationship with My Partner?
Abortion affects everyone in different ways. For some, the experience can be too painful, and they eventually break up, while others manage to move on together. That being said, studies have found that abortion tends to have damaging effects on relationships.
For example, one study found that couples who experience abortion were more likely to fight about children and money[1]. Additionally, women who had abortions were more likely to experience sexual dysfunction[1].
While it’s impossible to predict exactly how abortion will affect your relationship, it can be a negative turning point. Before choosing abortion, you should discuss how you think it could impact both of you emotionally.
What are the Emotional Side Effects of Abortion?
For some women, abortion can be shocking and painful, both physically and emotionally. They may experience grief, anxiety, and depression after an abortion[2], whether immediately after or years later. On the other hand, others feel relieved and find it easier to move on. But, things can still get complicated if you two have different opinions about the decision.
If you wanted to be a parent but he didn’t feel ready, he may not know how to support you through your grief. If you wanted to terminate the pregnancy but he wanted to keep it, he may not understand your relief.
Whatever the case may be, abortion can bring up a lot of intense emotions. This can make it even harder to understand each other and work through your disagreements.
How Can We Work Through Our Disagreements?
It can be difficult to navigate such a major decision, especially when disagreements occur. Sometimes, an outside perspective can provide some much-needed clarity!
Consider visiting the Women's Center of Eastern Connecticut to explore your pregnancy options together! We will help you come to a decision you both feel comfortable with, in a safe, nonjudgmental environment.
Abortion Information in Eastern CT
This decision doesn’t have to derail your relationships. The Women's Center of Eastern Connecticut is here to help you find a solution together!
Give us a call at (860) 576-8072 or request an appointment online today. All services are confidential and free of charge!
Please be aware that the Women's Center of Eastern Connecticut does not provide or refer for abortion services.
Sources
Coleman, P. K., Rue, V. M., & Coyle, C. T. (2009, March 26). Induced abortion and intimate relationship quality in the Chicago Health and Social Life Survey. U.S. National Library of Medicine. Retrieved from https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19324381/
Reardon, D. C. (2018, October 29). The abortion and mental health controversy: A comprehensive literature review of common ground agreements, disagreements, actionable recommendations, and research opportunities. National Library of Medicine. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6207970/
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